The Reality Of Me!


Hey Freaky Fam, How are you all doin’ today? Ima tell you right now. I type all kinda GRAMMATICALLY ERRORISH n stuff on purpose. In the real world of business we are forced to be proper and correct in all that we do. (Which I agree). However, on my own personal blog, facebook, website, videos, pictures or any other form of media, that I produce, I’m writing and talking how I want. Also, I will be randomly spewing stuff like this all over my blogs and you may think I’m crazy, BUT I’M NOT. People are just THAT crazy that I have to speak on it. So for all you FB Grammar Police, YES I KNOW I’m englishly incorrect right now. NOW. The real reason I’m on here today is because of something that has been stirring inside of me for about a month and a half now. For those of you who know me you know my mom passed away Nov. 9th, 2012. I have fought depression, (what I call obesity) being a big fat cow after having my son, I could go on. Well, Back in 2006 we went to a new housing development here in Vegas and looked at their models. There were two particular houses that stood out that we always said we wanted to get and live together in. I’m not gonna lie they were gorgeous houses but, I feel like I have to have me and my son in one of them by next year, PAID FOR. I’ve got a long road and a lot of work ahead of me and I’m willing to put in everything it takes to be able to do this for my Son and my Mom.

If you didn’t make New Year’s Resolutions then this is for you. ( I do not do that anymore as I NEVER accomplished any ONE I resolved too). So, Here’s what I want to hear from all of you. What is an achievable goal you would like to set and accomplish in the next 6 to 12 months. 1 Goal Only and be realistic. (That’s the problem. People set too many and too many unrealistic goals, get overwhelmed and give up!) I fully expect to see photographic evidence from ur camera or camera phone because this will be an ongoing thing until you accomplish your goal. Your goal could be weight loss, changing your appearance to feel better about yourself, make a large purchase, anything. My goal is to get the funds needed to buy my son and my mom a house, cash paid outright. Therefore, next June when I get the house I will share pictures with all of you as well as my journey along the way. I look forward to reading all of your comments! Toodles

Self Explanatory

Where can U find Me? I get asked this question on a daily basis….

I often find myself reading the same emails from different authors. One of the questions I am frequently asked is, “Where can I see your movies?”. You are always free to troll google under my name or you can go to

Daejha Milan’s XXX Theatre (NOW SHOWING: Her Naughty Side) MMMM He He

Daejha Milan Productions (The Darker Side) He He

as well. You will then be directed to window shop/purchase the vids with gifs. Feel free also to contact me on Facebook at

Also, If you have any questions or ideas about what you’d like to see on here, feel free to drop me a line.

I want to look like a Pornstar!

OK, I’m gonna tell you this article will pry shocc some of you. I’m a very honest and up front person. Therefore, from time to time. I will be saying or showing (pics) that may not be so flattering, of myself. That is to show you ladies that we all have flaws whether we want to admit it or not. I am a regular person just like all of you. I have NEVER had any sort of cosmetic surgery done on my person. I am happy with who I am as well as those of you who are happy with me too! I like women so I can judge fairly. I see so many women that neglect to see who they are and what they could be, or how they could change the way they feel about themselves, with either a little help or the know how. I’ve had so many women point out their flaws to me when talking about possibly coming into the business. Newsflash, u still look good flaws n all!! Good Gawd, I have bad eyes, one ear that sits higher than the other, a third nipple, crooked teeth, ima pervert, and I could stand to tone a few lbs and yet I’m still able to be an Adult Film Actress and Producer….Anyone can do this!!!

When my mom passed. I went Blonde the next day. I mean total blonde. It was horrid. I didn’t care though I needed that change for me. Same goes with life. We get comfortable in our situations and we feel secure with things the way they are. Sometimes change can be a good thing and heighten your quality of living. It’s amazing how when you feel like you look Fabulous, you feel Fabulous! So if you have any questions or comments feel free to let me know below!

For those of you who don’t know I am also a Licensed Esthetician and a Makeup Artist. If you have any skin care questions or makeup questions let me know and I will do my best to respond, as well.

Hello world!

Welcome to my Blog. It is here you will learn all about Me, The Adult Film Industry, My latest and greatest events, shoots, appearances and rants, The launch of my newest XXXotic Clothing Line and much more!!! Please come back daily for updates and information!!! Thanks for your very valuable time and I look forward to sharing my world with all of you!!!